This quote is spoken by Bill to Charlie in The Perks of Being a Wallflower, written by Stephen Chbosky (1999). The main character in this book (and noted wallflower), Charlie, asks his favorite English teacher one question.
Accepting ” is allowing ourselves to be loved, or rather loving someone. However, deserve is more, the love you’ve earned and created, you’ve gradually won the love – sometimes this isn’t a good idea, we think we ‘ve deserved it, but this could just be leading to our ignorance.
On Page 24 Bill, the teacher that Charlie befriended, tells him that “ We Accept the Love We Think We deserve .” Bill tells Charlie this because Charlie had just told him that his sisters boyfriend was hitting her.
There were a few things I had to do to finally be able to accept the love I know I deserve . Cultivate Self- Love . Set Firm Boundaries. Maintain A Life Outside Of The Relationship. Talk About Your Fears. Focus On The Present Moment. Work Through Thought Spirals. Remember That Everyone Deserves Love .
We all deserve love — just because we exist. And we all are loved each and every moment by the energy of love that is spirit/universe/God. But you will not know and feel this until you love yourself. You will know you deserve love when you are loving to yourself.
By changing how you feel about yourself, by knowing you deserve better, you will work to increase your self-esteem and self-concept, and you will end up with better people in the long run. You feel you have to change yourself — your values, goals, or dreams — for your partner to accept you .
Sam: Why do I and everyone I love pick people who treat us like we’re nothing? Charlie: We accept the love we think we deserve.
The love you accept is nothing but a reflection of the love you water yourself with. You accept the love you think you deserve . And the love you think you deserve is nothing but a reflection of the image you have of yourself. Your parents might have not loved you enough.
Love is complex. A mix of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection, protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another person.
Bill : Well, we accept the love we think we deserve . Charlie : Can we make them know that they deserve more ? Bill : We can try.
Charlie is constantly thinking about how other people experience love, and Bill tries to provide a framework that will help Charlie to work through his own relationships. Charlie uses this quote to talk to his sister and also to handle his erotic and romantic feelings for Sam. 5 дней назад
12 basic rules to find love The ‘ You ‘ll find love when you ‘re not looking’ approach may be wrong. Go where people like the same things you like. Look up from your phone. Don’t seek romance, seek partnership. Happy people attract people. Take time to be by yourself. Instant sexual attraction often fades.
22 Ways to love yourself Know yourself . Say “no” when you need to. Don’t compare yourself to others. Be truly present. Know and use your strengths.We all have tremendous gifts, but many of them go unnoticed. Give yourself plenty of healthy treats. Be honest with yourself .This one can be harder than it seems.