fool me once, shame on you ; fool me twice, shame on me After being tricked once, one should learn from one’s mistakes and avoid being tricked in the same way again.
Fool me twice , shame on me . Fool me three times , shame on both of us.”
” shame on you” : you should feel bad or humiliated (for doing something wrong) ” shame on me ” : I should feel bad or humiliated either because I did something wrong OR because I allowed you or someone else to do something wrong OR because I allowed you or someone else to fool me .
“ Hurt me once , shame on you; hurt me twice, shame on me .”
Shame is a painful feeling that’s a mix of regret, self-hate, and dishonor. People also often say, “That’s a shame ,” when something bad happens — meaning it’s sad or a pity.
Once is a mistake . Twice is a decision. Any more than that has no chance of being forgiven. Forgiveness, Mistakes , Life quotes .
Here are some common symptoms of shame: Wanting to Disappear. Most often, shame causes people to want to bury their heads and disappear — anything to pull out of connection with another person. Anger . Another common way people react to shame is by feeling anger . Self-Blame . Addiction .
1. Shame on you ! According to Thomas Scheff, professor of sociology at UC Santa Barbara, shame is linked so closely with self-worth that repressing it can lead to acts of aggression and, on a larger scale, war or familicide. That’s right, familicide.
You can say something like, “I’m really not ready to discuss this with you right now,” or “I’m sorry you feel that way,” or nothing at all. Just leave as quickly as you can.